In-Person Speed Dating | How It Works

We think the best relationships are forged when we are comfortable, relaxed and free of pressure. Preferring instead to think of the evening as a casual night out where one can truly be themselves. We do not use traditional 'speed dating' offerings such as bells, whistles and name-tags. Instead we focus on creating an atmosphere conducive to meeting others; a great venue, a personable host and a staff to assist. 

Simply select your city, scroll down to view the event listings and choose the event you wish to attend. Please note; All registrations must be made in advance. Payment is not accepted at the door.

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Upon registration, you'll be sent an email inviting you to login to your mobile ‘Smart-Card’. As the event begins, log-in to your scorecard and let the flirting begin. You'll be able to choose whom you wish to meet again, to what degree you like them and have until midnight to submit your final selections for matching. Once the clock strikes midnight - return to our platform to see your matches. You can also access your profile via mobile, tablet or PC. Our platform isn't an app so it requires absolutely no downloading and can be accessed directly from our website, anytime. 

Should you have any questions - feel free to ask away. Take the time before the event starts to settle in - have a beverage if you would like and mingle should you wish. Chat up our Hosts for tips or simply to ask, which direction the bar is in! After being shown to your table, the ladies will remain seated for the duration of the event. The gents move from lovely lady to lovely lady every six to seven minutes. Your mobile scorecard gives you the ability to see all the participants attending your event, upload your picture, make your selections and be notified of your matches all from your phone.

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Don't fret about figuring out if the person is the one or the perfect person for you. Consider it the date before the date. If you choose someone and they chose you - it's a match. You will be given each others first name and email address. The rest is up to you. 

In-Person Speed Dating | FAQ

How is Relish different than traditional speed dating?
Relish offers a low-key alternative unlike traditional speed dating offerings. We take a 'less is more' approach that we feel allows for a more comfortable evening. There isn't anything romantic about loud microphones, over-the-top trimmings, whistles and name-tags - so we simply don't use them. 

What type of people can I expect to meet?
The fact you’re reading about us, likely means they’re just like you. Daters that don’t like to settle and tend to set the trend rather than follow it. We are in part defined by our venues and our crowd reflects such.

How do I reserve my place? Register/Info
Reserving a place for yourself is quick and easy! Simply select your city, scroll down to see the event listings and choose the event which best works for you. You must purchase online - payment is not accepted at the door.

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What time should I show up for the Event?
Published start times can be found in the event description. Please try to avoid doing anything unsafe in your attempt to arrive to the event on time - we do like to wait for all participants to arrive. This may cause an event to start late but we feel a perfect opportunity to chat up the hosts, have a lovely refreshment and settle in.

What is a Relish ‘Date Mate’?
A ‘Date-Mate’ means you have a match! Our mobile ‘Smart-Card’ allows you to choose whom you wish meeting again, to what degree you like them and have until midnight to submit your final selections for matching. Paper scorecards are just so 2010! Once the clock strikes midnight - return to our platform to see your matches. You can also access your profile via mobile, tablet or PC. Our platform isn't an app so it requires absolutely no downloading and can be accessed directly from our website, anytime. 

Your mobile scorecard gives you the ability to see all the participants attending your event, upload your picture, make your selections and be notified of your matches all from your phone.

How long will I chat with my Prospective ‘Date-Mate’?
Chat up your prospective 'Date-Mates' 5 - 6 minutes at a time. Sometimes, for our larger events, this may be shortened by 1 or 2 minutes to accommodate all of the mini-dates in a timely fashion.

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So Little time; So much to say.
Don’t worry. In today’s world we tend to know in a matter of minutes if we ‘click’ with someone. You can also chat further with your prospective ‘Date-Mate’ at intermission or mingle after the event. Just have fun and go with it!

How long does a Relish event last?
The length of an event is based on the number of daters in attendance. Generally, our events last about 2 hours including intermission.

What Happens when the Event is over?
That‘s up to you! Most Daters say this is when the fun really starts! Feel free to stay and mingle for as long as you want.

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How Many People Will I Meet?
Relish events vary in size, anywhere from 20-40 singles show up for a good time.

What Should I Wear?
We typically tell daters to dress as they would a first date - fun and flirty always works.

I Am Older or Younger than your age ranges – may I still attend?
Of course you may. Our age ranges are merely suggestions.

For additional questions, feel free to contact us at info@dorelish.com

Advice Simplified

Dating is hard — we all know this. It can be fraught with self-doubt, rejection, and insecurity. Whether you’re stepping into the dating world for the first time and want help optimizing your profile and presentation, navigating the uncertain waters of new relationships, or seeking clarity and guidance in a long-term partnership — we can help. Our approach is intentionally simple: practical advice for one of life’s most complicated subjects — love.

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Powered by the relationship experts at MyCheekyDate, we know first-hand the challenges modern daters face. With more than 18 years of personal matchmaking experience helping singles across the world, we’ve witnessed every emotion, struggle, and frustration that dating can bring. That close connection with hundreds of thousands of singles gives us rare insight into an ever-evolving dating landscape. We understand what it takes to find genuine success — and how to turn dating uncertainty into lasting confidence, clarity, and connection.

Profile Me!

For those newly single or stepping back into the world of dating, the Profile Me! package helps you start off in the right direction and avoid the common pitfalls we’ve seen time and time again. The wrong photo, a mismatched bio, or a poorly reflected personality can make the difference between online success and digital silence. You might even be breaking one of the cardinal rules of dating apps without realizing it!

Enjoy a comprehensive profile consultation that reviews everything from your dating apps to your overall online presence. Our relationship specialists will advise, recommend, and refresh your digital first impression — setting you on the path to real-world results.

Includes:

• 90-minute video or phone consultation featuring an in-depth review of your dating and social profiles

• Personalized feedback on improving your profile’s look, tone, and attraction factor

• Dating Profile Optimization — actionable steps to help your photos, bio, and messaging reflect your best self

90 mins - $159.00

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All About Me!

If you’re connecting with other daters but finding your relationships often stall at a certain point, the All About Me! package is designed to help you move beyond that plateau. Together, we’ll explore how you approach your dates, the patterns that may be limiting deeper connection, and how to maximize your chances of building something lasting.

All About Me! can help you understand why connections sometimes fade before they fully form — and how to change that. You’ll learn to recognize your strengths, refine your communication style, and approach dating with renewed clarity and confidence.

This package also includes (if desired) all the insights and benefits of our Profile Me! package — plus deeper guidance tailored to your dating mindset and habits. Expect detailed appearance advice, communication coaching, and practical strategies covering everything from text and DM etiquette to when and how to express interest effectively.

Includes:

• All insights and benefits of the Profile Me! package (optional add-on)

• Comprehensive review of your online dating presence and interaction style

• Three hours of one-on-one consultation via video chat or phone

• Personalized, goal-oriented discussion with one of our relationship advisors about your current dating challenges and opportunities

3 Hours - $295.00

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Relationship Me!

When you find yourself in an exclusive or long-term relationship, you may realize that much of the anxiety, confusion, and questioning you thought belonged to your single life has only just begun. Perhaps you’re finding yourself moving from relationship to relationship, wondering, “Is it me?” or “Where am I going—and who’s truly going with me?”

The Relationship Me! package is designed to help you gain clarity, recognize repeating patterns, and find confidence in how you connect. Together, we’ll explore the subtle missteps that can lead to larger challenges and develop healthy, sustainable patterns for communication, trust, and emotional growth.

Our approach is personalized, direct, and modern — advice tailored for today’s relationships, not stretched across years of endless sessions. Dating and relationship dynamics evolve constantly, and our insight comes from more than 18 years of hands-on experience with daters and couples around the world. We’ve been their matchmakers, coaches, confidants, and cheerleaders — and we’re here to help you create the kind of relationship that lasts.

Includes:

• All benefits of the Profile Me! and All About Me! packages (if desired)

• Up to 4 hours of private consultation via video or phone

• Personalized guidance for those seeking clarity and deeper relationship success

4 Hours - $345.00

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How It Works

Simply select the package that best suits you. Whether it’s our Profile Me! package — ideal for singles looking to optimize their dating profiles, our All About Me! package — perfect for those wanting expert insight to move their dating life forward, or our Relationship Me! package — designed for individuals or couples seeking curated, personal advice for relationship growth and clarity.

Once you’ve chosen your package, a member of our MyCheekyDate Advice & Coaching Team will reach out to guide you through your next steps. Any questions, concerns, or curiosities — we’re here to help. After we learn a bit about you, we’ll arrange your personalized one-on-one consultation, available via our secure online platform or by phone — whichever you prefer.

Our packages serve as a starting point, but every person and every situation is unique. We understand that dating and relationships rarely fit neatly into boxes, and we’re accustomed to helping with every kind of challenge, frustration, and “I’m not sure what’s next” moment. During your sessions, you’ll find a supportive, understanding, and relatable ear — never judgment, always encouragement.

If you’re unsure whether your situation fits what we offer, we invite you to reach out before booking. We’ll be happy to discuss your goals and ensure you find the right fit for your journey toward clarity, confidence, and connection.

What is MyCheekyAdvice?
MyCheekyAdvice is a dating and relationship advice platform born from 18 years of matchmaking experience at MyCheekyDate. Over the years, we’ve inspired hundreds of thousands of singles to believe in themselves — and in turn, they’ve inspired us with their perseverance and stories. Our personal, one-on-one approach and worldwide team give us the insight to assist daters from all walks of life with advice that’s thoughtful, practical, and rooted in real experience.

What makes your staff so knowledgeable?
Our team works directly with daters every day through MyCheekyDate’s events and matchmaking programs, guiding them before, during, and after their relationships. It’s this close, ongoing involvement — seeing what actually works in the real world — that gives our staff the experience and intuition to provide genuine, effective, and compassionate guidance.

I'm an active dater, how can MyCheekyAdvice benefit me?
Modern dating evolves quickly, and what worked yesterday may not resonate today. MyCheekyAdvice offers current, personalized insight to help you stay grounded and confident — improving your communication, mindset, and approach. We focus on clarity and adaptability so you can meet today’s dating world with ease and authenticity.

Will I be communicating with a licensed therapist?
While some of our advisors hold advanced educational backgrounds, it’s their hands-on experience with real daters that truly sets them apart. With decades of collective knowledge from working one-on-one with singles, our staff brings lived, practical expertise that helps you navigate real-life dating and relationship challenges with empathy and precision.

How is it determined when I have my sessions?
Once you have registered for your desired package, our staff will be in touch with you to schedule your session/s. Together, we will work to find the best times that work for your schedule. 

What if I still feel like I need more assistance after my package is complete?
We understand that working on yourself, your profile, mindset and approach can very much be a journey and not a definitive destination. Once your package is complete, you may discuss purchasing additional time to discuss your continued needs with our staff.

Are the advice packages all inclusive and available for all sexual orientations?
Once you register for your chosen package, a team member will contact you to arrange your sessions. Together, we’ll select the dates and times that best fit your schedule. Sessions can take place on our private online platform or by phone — whichever you prefer.

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Profile Me! | FAQ

The Profile Me! Package offers tips to improve my dating profile and appearance, will that really make a difference whether I garner attention?
Absolutely. You have only seconds to make a lasting impression, so every detail counts. There are countless small adjustments that can make a world of difference in how many matches you attract. For example, 86% of men and women agree that full or medium-length profile photos are more appealing than just headshots. Men photographed outdoors tend to receive more responses than those pictured indoors, while women often get better engagement from indoor settings. Your written profile matters just as much — 75% of daters are turned off by spelling errors, and 56% say they wouldn’t date someone with poor grammar. Let our experts show you how to fine-tune your presentation and supercharge your results.

I don't have any experience with dating, can MyCheekyAdvice be beneficial for me?
Definitely. Our coaching packages are designed for every level of dating experience. If you’re new to dating, the Profile Me! package is the perfect place to start. We’ll help you craft a polished, confident profile and provide practical advice tailored to first-time daters. With guidance from our experienced team, you’ll gain the confidence and clarity needed to step into dating with ease.

Online dating is not for me, can you still help?
You’re not alone. While online dating is popular, 58% of singles prefer meeting people in person. If you’d rather skip the apps, we can still help you shine. Our team has extensive experience coaching daters on in-person first impressions, wardrobe and body language, communication style, and how to make meaningful connections offline. The Profile Me! package can easily be customized to focus on your in-person presence rather than your digital profile — helping you stand out naturally, confidently, and authentically.

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All About Me! | FAQ

I have had a handful of happy relationships, my challenge is knowing when the right person for me has come along, how can I get help with that?
That’s one of the most common struggles in today’s fast-moving dating world. With social media constantly showcasing “perfect” relationships, it’s easy to question what’s real or move on too quickly when things don’t match the highlight reel. The All About Me! package allows us to get to know you and your relationship history, helping you recognize when something genuine is in front of you and how to nurture it into something lasting. We’ll guide you toward identifying compatibility, understanding emotional timing, and building that spark that deepens with time — not just from the start.

I am in a committed relationship, but it's only been a few months and I need advice on how to grow this relationship, can you help me??
Absolutely. The All About Me! package is ideal for this stage. The early months of a relationship often bring excitement, curiosity, and uncertainty as expectations begin to evolve. We’ll help you strengthen your connection, improve communication, and understand how to grow from those first few months into something meaningful and sustainable. Our focus is on helping you avoid common pitfalls and instead create a strong, confident foundation for long-term success.

I am in a relationship currently. Some of my friends and family think it's a toxic relationship, but I don't see it. Can I get help with understanding if my relationship is right for me?
Yes, we can absolutely help through the All About Me! package. It’s not uncommon to feel unsure when outside perspectives don’t match your own experience. Our advisors will help you evaluate your relationship clearly and compassionately, looking at communication, respect, and mutual support. We’ll help you recognize what’s healthy and what may be holding you back — empowering you to make choices that align with your emotional well-being and long-term happiness.

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Relationship Me! | FAQ

Can I use the Relationship Me! package hours for additional time on a Profile Me! or All About Me! session?
Yes — you can use your consultation time however you wish. Many of our daters choose to extend their earlier sessions for additional guidance as they navigate first dates, online chats, or the early stages of a new connection. The flexibility of the Relationship Me! package allows you to receive continuous, tailored support that grows with your dating and relationship journey.

I have been in a relationship for many years with no signs of a marriage proposal. Can you help me bring some excitement back to my relationship?
Definitely — this is one of our favorite challenges to explore. While every relationship is unique, there are proven ways to reignite attraction and emotional connection. Through the Relationship Me! package, you’ll work one-on-one with our experts to identify what may have shifted and how to restore that early spark. Together, we’ll help you communicate more effectively, rekindle curiosity, and bring back the energy and excitement your relationship deserves..

I am in a relationship, it's been about 2 years and we are discussing moving in together. I am feeling anxious about how to merge our lives together, can you offer any advice?
Absolutely. This is both an exciting and transitional stage, and it’s natural to feel nervous. The Relationship Me! package will give you practical tools and emotional insight on how to move in together smoothly while maintaining your individuality. We’ll guide you through creating balance, setting expectations, and building a shared space that strengthens your connection rather than blurring it. Our goal is to replace your anxiety with confidence and help you start this new chapter on the strongest footing possible.

 We wanted to bring a fresh alternative to countless forms, contracts and hours of consultations. Matchmakers claiming they have thousands of daters, but none explaining from where. While other Matchmakers are forced to find your match at bars, the mall or other unsavory locations, we meet a fantastic set of new singles every week from our events alone, allowing us the opportunity to choose for you the best out of an already great crowd. We also garner extremely busy Matchmaking daters who find our services an efficient dating indulgence. Sought after for the level of dater we attract, the personal service we offer and an unparalleled selection of the daters you want to meet. We're honored to find that special someone just for you.   

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Include Me!

• Join in on all the Cheeky fun by becoming a member! Enjoy the opportunity to be chosen for one of our fabulous Matchmaking Date-Nights.

• Prospective dates are selected three ways; From those whom purchase one of our Matchmaking packages, are chosen from the attendees of our social and business networking events or by becoming a Cheeky member.

• Share your goals, preferences and details about yourself with our team and we’ll add you to our curated collection of daters just like yourself.

• Skip the line! While membership does not promise a set number of matches, members are given priority over event attendees whom are invited to join our Matchmaking program.

$149 USD Per Year

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Simplify Me!

* Two pre-arranged Date Nights. For Each Date-Night you will meet a different partner chosen for you based on your mutual aspirations, expectations and likes.

* Matchmaking by our experienced team. A comprehensive and detailed approach to understanding you and finding that partner who compliments both of your goals.

* Our team will discuss your details and preferences with you upon confirmation.

* Arrangements for each of your Two Date-Nights at one of our preferred venues or venue of your choice.

* Complimentary admission to Speed Dating events at no charge to you for the duration of your Matchmaking package.

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Date Me!

* Four pre-arranged Date-Nights. For each Date-Night you will meet a different partner chosen for you based on your mutual aspirations, expectations and likes.

* Matchmaking by our experienced team. A comprehensive and detailed approach to understanding you and finding that partner who compliments both of your goals.

* Our team will discuss your details and preferences with you upon confirmation.

* Arrangements for each of your Four Date-Nights at one of our preferred venues or venue of your choice.

* 'This, that and the other' - the ultimate in concierge services. From fashion advice, unique date-spots to sought-after recommendations - ask and you shall receive!

* Complimentary admission to Speed Dating events at no charge to you for the duration of your Matchmaking package.

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Indulge Me!

* Six pre-arranged Date-Nights. For each Date-Night you will meet a different partner chosen for you based on your mutual aspirations, expectations and likes.

* Matchmaking by our experienced team. A comprehensive and detailed approach to understanding you and finding that partner who compliments both of your goals.

* Our team will discuss your details and preferences with you upon confirmation.

* Arrangements for each of your Six Date-Nights at one of our preferred venues or venue of your choice.

* Enjoy our 'This, that and the other' concierge service combined with a sampling of one of our Advice Packages. Spoil yourself in our insight and unparalleled experience.

* Complimentary admission to Speed Dating events at no charge to you for the duration of your Matchmaking package.

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How It Works - Matchmaking

Relish Dating offers our daters a simple, yet comprehensive and detailed approach to Matchmaking. With an emphasis on who you are, where you are going and who you want to go with. Taking the time to understand you, allows us the opportunity to find a partner that compliments both you and each others goals. Simply email us at info@dorelish.com with some information about yourself and your goals. If we believe we can be of assistance to you - we'll send on details for you to purchase your desired package.

Shortly after registration you will receive your confirmation where you will have the opportunity to share with us further details about your background and personal preferences.  

Consider us your blind date specialists. Inspired by the romantic and simple days gone by, we bring back the lovely idea of meeting a date, arranged by another, at a venue of your choosing. Days of only knowing your date’s first name and looking out for that date with the red carnation are back; Red carnation optional. All communication between you and your Date-Mate prior to your Date-Night will be entirely through us.

Our staff selects from a diverse crowd of daters from our Singles events, Networking events and fellow Matchmaking clients. Mutual interest is of course paramount and will dictate the length of time before you may meet your initial match and complete your package. A wonderful bonus to purchasing our Matchmaking Packages is the ability to attend our speed dating events at no additional charge to you. When you see an event you fancy attending - simply let us know and we'll add you to the guest list. There is no limit to the number of events you may attend with our compliments for the duration of your package. Attending events is an important part of the process and an excellent opportunity for us to get to know you better, for you get to know our daters and for us to see who is drawn to you. As well, many Matchmaking daters find our events the perfect way to narrow down what they are looking for and learn a bit more about themselves in the process.

We will confirm with your potential Date-Mate, coordinate both of your schedules and make the reservation for you. You may choose to go to one of the fabulous venues that we work with or if you prefer, we can arrange for your Date-Night to be at your local favorite hangout. Whether you fancy meeting for coffee, a lovely drink or for a lunch or dinner - how much or how little is entirely up to you. 

Your Date Night has arrived! You will be given details of your reservation, the chosen venue, first name of your Date-Mate and a brief description of who you will be meeting. The venue is mutually agreed upon, through us, between you and your date. It’s a no pressure approach to dating. If your Date Mate is someone you wish to see again and if you would like us to exchange your e-mail address, we will take care of that.  Or simply tell us ‘next please’! For each Date-Night, you will meet a different partner, chosen for you based on your mutual aspirations, expectations and likes.

Frequently Asked Questions - Matchmaking

What information is exchanged with my ‘Date-Mate’ prior to our arranged date?
Prior to your arranged date, matched daters are only given each others first names. After we consult with both daters, a night and venue is arranged with details of the venue, time and day of the meeting and the first name of your ‘Date-Mate’. Personal information such as e-mail, address or phone numbers are never exchanged by us and we urge our daters to use the same prudence.

Do you do an employment, credit or financial verification?
Our primary concern is the safety of our guests. Every dater you meet is a registered guest of our speed dating, business networking and/or our matchmaking programs. We do not solicit singles from locales such as bars, nightclub or gyms. Our due diligence combined with our policy of daters meeting Date-Mate’s at a venue arranged by us – we feel creates an atmosphere free of worry and allows our daters to relax and enjoy the moment. We don’t find it necessary to prejudge an individual based on earnings. Our clients are as ambitious as they are adventurous, either atop of, or on the ladder to success. Prejudging a dater today, we feel, does an injustice to their accomplishments tomorrow.

Are events included in my Matchmaking Package?
Yes! A wonderful bonus to purchasing our Matchmaking Packages is the ability to attend our speed dating and/or virtual speed dating events at no additional charge to you. When you see an event you would like to attend - simply let us know and we'll add you to the guest list. There is no limit to the number of events you may attend with our compliments for the duration of your package. Attending events is an important part of the process and an excellent opportunity for us to get to know you better, for you get to know our daters and for us to see who is drawn to you. As well, many Matchmaking daters find our events the perfect way to narrow down what they are looking for and learn a bit more about themselves in the process.

How can you charge so much less than the competition?
We don't have to spend money recruiting daters. We are sought after for who we are and the level of dater we attract, affording us the luxury of daters finding us, rather than the expense of having to find daters.

What happens if I do not notify you of a cancellation?
If you do not show up for a scheduled, confirmed date without any notification, you will forfeit the remainder of your date-mate package.  We have a zero tolerance policy for no-shows.  With prior notice, we will work with you on rescheduling your date and understand sometimes things happen that are beyond your control and we ask that daters be considerate of each others schedule changes.

How do I attend a televised event?
Always a lovely bit of fun! We are quite chuffed to attract such attention and are over the moon that our daters are seen as such trendsetting singles. As a participant in our Matchmaking program, should you fancy attending a special event or televised event - just let us know

May I bring a friend?
Let’s Double Date! While you can’t bring a friend with you on a Date Night, we do allow friends to ‘Double Date’. You and your friend can select your own matchmaking package, let us do the details, match you both up with your ‘Date Mates’ and send you, your friend and new Date-Mate’s off for a fabulous night on the town.

How do I let you know my preferences?
After you select your matchmaking package, you will receive a confirmation e-mail with details and questions to help us find your Date Mate. Tell us as much as you like! The more you offer, the better we can match. Our staff will review your preferences and get to work finding your match, making arrangements and sending you off on your date night.

Do I have to go to a venue or restaurant chosen by Relish Dating?
Of course not! You are free to choose any restaurant, venue or event you wish for your Date Night. Simply let us know what you have in mind so we may pass the reservation details onto your Date-Mate.

Am I obligated to use my Date Nights over a certain period of time?
You may use your Date Nights at your leisure.

What is the age range?
Our Matchmaking age range is similar to that of our events; our daters tend to be between early twenties to early forties.

What if I don't have the ability to act like a lady or gentleman? 
We do have a zero tolerance for any rudeness - of any sort. We attract such great daters but find - as in life - not every dater is ideal. Our daters are also our product and we go to great lengths to ensure everyone meets lovely daters. We want the right daters not just any daters. Behavior short of lovely will result in a dater being banned from the company. This may upset some but we feel our daters as a whole appreciate the extra effort and we hope you do too.

How do I get started’?
Simply email us at info@dorelish.com with some information about yourself and your goals. If we believe we can be of assistance to you - we'll send on details for you to purchase your desired package.

For additional questions, feel free to contact us at info@dorelish.com